Ramadhan is here!
And we are so blessed to be able to meet this holy month again. My family and I went back to Lampung again for some errands as well as paying homage to our big family. It becomes sort of a tradition in many part of Indonesia that before Ramadhan starts, we visit our family as well as the graves of those members of family who have passed away. Ziarah or visiting the graves of our relatives is often done days before we start fasting and later on the D-Day or the Eid-il Fitr or Lebaran.
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Back to Lampung before Ramadhan |
We visited around 10 relatives' graves, starting from my father, our grandparents as well as uncles and aunties and other extended families. They buried in different cemeteries so we went to around 4 different places.
It was such solemn moments when, after all those years being away from home, we no longer meet our grandparents or extended families but on their graves. I lost my grandma and my uncle in 2018, when my hubby lost his dad in the beginning of 2018 as well.
I also visited my dearest Papa's grave.
I miss him so much and Ramadhan always reminds me of him.
All those great memories come pouring in and I can't help but smile and wish he enjoyed Allah's heaven. He is always in my prayers.
Again, the best thing we can do at this point now is to send prayers to them and hope that they have wonderful after-life in heaven.
Meanwhile, on a lighter note, we went back to the snorkeling spot in Lampung on the last days before Ramadhan. We obviously had tons of fun! Never get enough of Sari Ringgung Beach and its snorkeling spots.
This time we ventured to Mahitam Island as well, slightly different from the previous islands, Tegal Mas and Tegal Perak. We snorkeled in two different spots and this time we saw many jelly fish. Well, apparently it's the season and we really had to be careful not to touch this graceful yet dangerous creature. Stay away from its tentacles.
We bid farewell to the beack around dusk, beautiful orange-and-purple sky really melt our heart. Sunset on the beach will always be heartwarming.
As we are ready to enter the holy month with a pure heart, the masterpiece of our Creator, -the sunset - is a vivid reminder of His great creation. May we all have a wonderful and blessed month, filled with joy, peace, and tranquilty.
And after the first sholat tarawih, the additional sholat done only in Ramadhan, in the mosque near our house in Lampung, we headed back to Jakarta as office starts at usual in the following Monday.
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Visiting my late grandma, who passed away in 2018 when we were in NYC |
It was such solemn moments when, after all those years being away from home, we no longer meet our grandparents or extended families but on their graves. I lost my grandma and my uncle in 2018, when my hubby lost his dad in the beginning of 2018 as well.
I also visited my dearest Papa's grave.
I miss him so much and Ramadhan always reminds me of him.
All those great memories come pouring in and I can't help but smile and wish he enjoyed Allah's heaven. He is always in my prayers.
Again, the best thing we can do at this point now is to send prayers to them and hope that they have wonderful after-life in heaven.
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Nenek or my grandma's grave.. |
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At Mahitam Island.. |
This time we ventured to Mahitam Island as well, slightly different from the previous islands, Tegal Mas and Tegal Perak. We snorkeled in two different spots and this time we saw many jelly fish. Well, apparently it's the season and we really had to be careful not to touch this graceful yet dangerous creature. Stay away from its tentacles.
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My hubby and my daughter enjoying the crystal clear water |
As we are ready to enter the holy month with a pure heart, the masterpiece of our Creator, -the sunset - is a vivid reminder of His great creation. May we all have a wonderful and blessed month, filled with joy, peace, and tranquilty.
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And after the first sholat tarawih, the additional sholat done only in Ramadhan, in the mosque near our house in Lampung, we headed back to Jakarta as office starts at usual in the following Monday.
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jelang Ramadan, ziarah walau tak wajib buat sebagian kita jadi tradisi kumpul yaaa mbak, semoga menjalankan ibadah puasa Ramadan kali ini dengan baik amiiin
ReplyDeleteWonderful sunset pictures.
ReplyDeleteThank you for hosting.
I want to snokling at Sari Ringgunh too but I didnt make it brcause of the weather was rainy at that time. Lucky you found many jelly fish and got that beautiful sunset.
ReplyDeleteMirip nih sama keluargaku. Kami menjelang ramadan kemarin pergi berenang bareng.
ReplyDeletekeren ya pemandangan di pantainya.
ReplyDeleteZiarah sebenarnya bisa dilakukan kapan saja, tapi tradisi masyarakat kita banyak mengkhususkan ziarah menjelang ramadhan ya mbak
Biar makin syahdu ya menjalani ibadah shaum nya pulkam dulu mendo'akan sanak saudara yang telah mendahului kita menuju Rabb. Selamat menjalani ibadah shaum mama dan keluarga semoga berkah. Aamiin
ReplyDeleteSebelum puasa puas-puasin liburan, apalagi di pantai dan bisa snorkling. Asyik banget. Selain itu bisa berkunjung ke rumah saudara dan atau ziarah ke kubur keluarga yang sudah meninggal.
ReplyDeleteSelamat berpuasa, ya, Mbak. Semoga lancar dan berkah. Aamiin..
Di Jawa juga, tradisi yang rutin digelar menjelang puasa adalah ke makam, mendoakan keluarga yang sudah meninggal. Ada tradisi sadranan/nyekar ke makam
ReplyDeleteAgak sedih sih baca postingan ini. Mengingat lebaran kali ini akan ada 1 makam lagi yang akan saya datangi yaitu makam papah. Al fatihah untuk semua yang sudah meninggalkan kita ya, Mbak :)
ReplyDeletesenangnya bisa pulang kampung. aku juga pengen mudik tapi liat harga tiket yang sungguh menggila jadi batal
ReplyDeleteJelang menjelang dan silaturakhil ke sdr2 yg lbh tua, mohon maaf atas segala kesalahan baik yg sengaja ataupun tida sengajabkita perbuat. Tahun ini I missed the chance to visit the graves of my parents, my grandparends n sisters/brothers due to my weak condition of health. Hope on Lebaran occasion I can manage to do any outstanding ones. In shaa Allah
ReplyDeleteKelihatan cantik tapi perlu hati-hati, ya, kalau ada ubur-ubur. Walau begitu, jadi suatu momen bisa berenang di antara ubur-ubur.
ReplyDeleteLampung..pantai nya cakep2 ya mba..
ReplyDeleteSelamat menjalankan ibadah Ramadhan, mba Indah.. semoga Allah memberkahi kita semua. Aamiin..
Mama Bo besar di Lampung?
ReplyDeleteJadi ingat Laskar Pelangi, kak... Dimana anak-anak belajar dari alam.
Aku jadi ingat kota kelahiran aku euy di Lampung, inget juga belum balik2 ke sana untuk ziarah ke makam yay dan nyai. Semenjak nyokap bokap tinggal di Jakarta gak setiap tahun ke Lampung mudik
ReplyDeleteKlo istilah sundanya nyekar mba, sebelum ramadan menjenguk kuburan orangtua yg sdh meninggal mendoakan n membersihkan
ReplyDeleteMenyambut bulan Ramadan, tradisinya nyekar ya mba. Biar afdol. Sama saling memaafkan juga.
ReplyDeleteAlhamdulillah mbak masih dikasih kesempatan ziarah ke makam keluarga sebelum lebaran.
ReplyDeleteSeru sekali bisa sambil sekalian snorkling-an yah mbaaak
Huhuhu...aku ingat bahwa aku malah nggak tau makam ayahku di mana
ReplyDeleteLangsung sedih sesedih2nya aku
Mbak bagus banget cristal water nya.. Bener-bener bening ya. Kalau bicara makam, aku juga teringat sama Papa bulan depan satu tahun meninggalnya. Selamat menunaikan ibadah puasa ya mbak.
ReplyDeleteHuhuhu, sama. Aku pun kalo Ramadan teringat alm. bapak. Di masa kecil, kenangan bareng beliau sangatlah banyak. Dari yang digendong saat sahur ke tempat makan soalnya aku gak bangun2. Hingga ke masak masakan untuk berbuka karena mama jualan di pasar. Jadi kangen beliau. Alfatihah buat bapak-bapak kita. :)
ReplyDeleteIstilahnya munggahan kalau di tempatku mbak, kumpul2 keluarga dulu sebelum puaa trus nyekar ke makam
ReplyDeleteKalo makam yh moto mama Bo jadi terasa syahdu dan melankolis. Kalo giliran aku yg moto mapah horor
ReplyDeleteSenang ya mbak bisa pulang kampung menjelang lebaran. Tradisi yang tak pernah ditinggalkan adalah tradisi nyekar ke makam dengan tujuan untuk mendoakan arwah leluhur kita. Ada juga tradisi Munggahan yaitu mengantarkan makanan ke tetangga.... tradisi semacam ini sampai sekarang masih tetap berjalan di keluarga besar saya yang berada di Jawa Timur mbak.
ReplyDeleteMomen Ramadhan memang saat yang tepat untuk bersilaturahim ke keluarga besar dan para orangtua sekaligus berziarah ya, mba, Lampung memang bagus ya wisata lautnya
ReplyDeleteJelang Ramadan Alhamdulillah bisa silaturahim ke keluarga di tanah air ya mbak, insyaAllah momen yang tak terlupakan untuk anak anak
ReplyDeleteDuh samaan nih ramadhan selalu mengingatkan kenangan manis bareng ayah..huhu..semoga beliau bahagia di sana ya..
ReplyDeleteYang kusuka kalau ke Lampung selain kumpul sama keluarga ya kuliner dan pantainya. Duh gak pengen cepet2 balik ke Jakarta pokoknya kalau dah di Lampung
ReplyDeleteYap, biasa menjelang ramadan saya dan keluarga juga ziarah makam keluarga yang sudah lebih dulu berpulang. Btw momen Ramadan memang merupakan momen yang tepat untuk kumpul keluarga ya Mbak.
ReplyDeleteAku jd sedih mbak, dulu aku sering melakukan tradisi ziarah gtu pas rumahku masih di Sby, kami nyekar ke makam2 leluhur.Smrng aku jauh dr kelkuarga jd cuma bisa mendoakan dr jauh....
ReplyDeletetahun-tahun sebelumnya, sebelum ramadhan biasanya selalu nyempetin ziarah ke makam papa, nenek, adik dan Iyma (kakak mama, tapi ramadhan tahun ini saya gak ziarah ke makam karena kondisi yang gak memungkinkan
ReplyDeletenyekar juga sudah menjadi tradisi dalam keluargaku mba indah. apalagi kami masih dalam satu kota, kayanya koq kebangetan kalo sampe ga ada waktu ya utk nyekar.
ReplyDeleteSelamat berpuasa ya mba, semoga shaum kita lancar dan kembali fitri di hari suci nanti, aamin
Aku juga nyekar mba Indah waktu mudik ke Kendal
ReplyDeletetapi di tradisi rumah suamiku Pemalang tidak ada beginian
kecuali orangtua yng datang ke makam
Tetep snorklingnya gak ketinggalan ya Mak, hehe. Btw, semoga dilapangkan kuburnya dan dalam kasih sayang Alloj buat oma n opa ya aamiin
ReplyDeleteSenangnya bisa pulang kampung ya Mbak, selamat memasuki bulan Ramadan ya Mbak.... Semoga dilancarkan segala urusannya di bulan ini :)
ReplyDeleteLove those little flowers you left on your grandmas grave. The snorkeling and sunsets sound like a magical time before the holiday.
ReplyDeleteit was a very solemn moment we have in Lampung ma..May all of our ancestors rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteFelt sad reading this post, because my dad just passed away a week ago. What we can do just pray for him and the rest of family to stay strong :(
ReplyDeleteWaaaa lampung. Aku belum pernah kesana, pengen deh bisa snorkling di lampung. Selama ini aq snorklingnya cuma di Karimunjawa. Terakhir 2 minggu sebelum ramadhan.. Hehe
ReplyDeletesama mbak aku juga punya tradisi ziarah kubur ini
ReplyDeletetapi tahun ini aku ga sempat ziarah ke makam kakek nenek aku
semoga pas idul fitri, bisa langsung ziarah ke makamnya
alfatihah untuk almarhum/ah